Art for dementia

Art for dementia project   I   Forgotten Strength

Drawing and painting are universal languages, and kind of a meditation! In my “art for dementia”-project I volunteer in an art workshop for people with dementia. They cannot talk any more but when we make art together, we are in strong connection and communication with each other and we do have a lot of fun!

This is me in our workshop 🙂

Our mission : To give people suffering from dementia a possibility for communication, a moment of resourcing, as well as human connection and dignity.

If you want advice to start a workshop like this in a place near your place, or privately at home with your family & friends, I’ll be happy to help you.

My grandmother on my mother’s side suffered from dementia.
Dementia scares people and causes a lot of suffering from misunderstanding.
But caring for people with dementia doesn’t have to be pain alone. There can be joy as well…

Drawing and painting are universal languages, and kind of a meditation! The people who come to our workshop cannot talk any more but when we make art together, we are in strong connection and communication with each other and we do have a lot of fun!

The mission of the workshop is: To give people suffering from dementia a possibility for communication, a moment of resourcing, as well as human connection and dignity. Human connection and dignity is difficult to find in the world with dementia.

When my grandmother was not able to live at home any more she ended up in hospital and at the end in a horrible old people’s home where she wasn’t well taken care of. And nobody helped us to communicate with her. There’s still a big taboo about the illness. It makes people uncomfortable. That’s a pity and a shame.
A couple of years after she died I discovered a whole other side of caring for people with dementia. A human way, where there is respect, patience and even joy !
Joy can be found in human contact and music and art are an easy way to get that contact.
Especially music is very healing.
Here I want to share with you some other communication tips, inspired from a dutch poem by MC Eberhart. But it’s so true:
  • When I go wandering around. Let me go. Don’t force me to sit down. Let me stand and walk around
  • When I ask for my mum, don’t tell me she’s dead. Hold my hand, and ask me for her name
  • When I’m angry, I don’t want medication. I want you to listen to my voice and take your time.
  • When I don’t want to eat any more, it’s not because I’m not hungry. It’s because I forgot how to. Show me how you do it…
  • When I don’t want you to help me washing myself and getting dressed, it’s not that I want to be dirty. It’s because I forgot you offered me your help.
  • Just keep repeating what you’re going to do, keep warning me what is coming next, and maybe you even get a kiss 🙂
  • If you have empathy, and look with patience what I want to say, maybe you’ll even find out how I feel
  • I have an illness, you know, called Alzheimer. Now I still remember, but tomorrow I’ll have forgotten it.
Tell me, and I’ll forget.
Show me, and I’ll remember.
Include me, and I’ll understand

Workshop moments

what colors will your life have?

trying pastels

remember that in our hearts, we are never old

Art stimulates the brain, providing powerful benefits for Alzheimer's patients

This is where I used to live, he said. Et on allait danser aussi, la valse lente et rapide

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